This badge is a heart shaped badge (aaaa!! These badges are so cute!) with a multicoloured background and flowers, with black text that reads "stop hiding behind 'meaning well' when you cause harm unintentionally; just admit your mistake, apologise, and stop making it about you and your feelings". When you cause harm to someone, particularly marginalised and oppressed people, stop arguing, stop being defensive, stop hiding behind the fact that you meant well. We don't need your defensiveness. We need your acceptance that you caused harm and your commitment to learn and do better in the future as a result of this experience. You can now get this badge as a fridge magnet too, just select the option from the dropdown menu! These badges are approximately 57mm by 52mm (2.25" by 2" roughly!) and are a beautiful soft heart shape! They have a metal pin back and are absolutely gorgeous, I am in love with them. There are photos next to a 5p (same size as a US dime) and of me holding the badge in my hand to show size if you're not good with numbers. These badges ARE NOT WATERPROOF. Because of the way that they are made and the front is crimped, there is a tiny slit in the "crack" of the heart where both the mylar and printed design purposely have a slit to accommodate the shape of the badge. This is NOT A DESIGN FLAW, it's just the only way these badges can physically be made, so please be aware of this when ordering. :) ♡ SHIPPING + PROCESSING ♡ All my items are made in house, by me, and they are all made to order (except enamel pins, which are the ONLY "in stock" item I have) - I'm only one person so please be patient. :) Your order is never tracked unless you upgrade at checkout, please do not message me asking for tracking info if you didn't upgrade. I don't use plastic packaging (or if I do it's recycled/recyclable). The service used to ship your order depends on where you are and what you order. Please see my FAQs and policies for more details.